Does love have to reciprocate?


As humans we certainly, really want to be loved by others, but what if the love we crave is not avenged?

It must be sad

However, I have another view of unrequited love.

Unrequited love is not always sad but always painful

Like a mother's love, which is sometimes unanswered, because the child has no empathy and sometimes even prefers to play with his friend rather than thinking about the feelings of parents.

But, if we are in the position of parents, it must be painful and very sad, so from that love must be sincere unconditionally, and that is also a drug that always heals the pain in the chest of parents.

Unrequited love makes people more mature

With unrequited love sometimes gives people more strength to live, because, in the end, they want to see the person they loved, love them back, even though it hurts but that's like it.

However, in a case of unrequited love also gives people a very valuable experience for them, so they no longer have to love the wrong person, because unrequited love is also painful for them.

Unrequited love can be replaced with true love

Sometimes, because unrequited love gives us experience, makes us very careful in determining the person we will love next, but in the end, if we patiently love comes at the right time for the right person.

Because love is avenged, which also leads us to more mature thinking so that we can see our partner more realistic, true love should be able to provide comfort for those who get it.

Comfort comes because we understand that our partners are lacking which makes us more careful in behaving and giving love.

Sometimes I think and ask my self "why are our partners angry when they do not get a reply from us?" the answer is quite easy namely "because they care about us, and because they love us".

From this article I want to say, if your love is not avenged, then don't be discouraged, I am sure, you will find it at the right time with the right person, without you thought it before.

It could be, I wrote this article.
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