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Stress Due to Broken Relationships with Couples

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Bad things can happen to just anyone, like when people stay away from us, sometimes it can have more serious consequences such as experiencing stress, because when other people stay away from us maybe in us will ask "why do they stay away from me?" Even in this modern era, stress can increase because of social media that is used, just because many people are bullying us, then we become moody and think about it more deeply. However, feeling stressed because a break up has become common, either because the trend has changed there or indeed the characteristics of our society. There are things we need to do when we find ourselves or the people around us experiencing stress Namely by giving them warmth and hugs, scientifically hugs can relieve and provide security for people who are hugged. However, in seeing the symptoms of stress, we cannot see the symptoms directly, in this era of social media, when our friends write more status on their social media, espe

Does love have to reciprocate?

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As humans we certainly, really want to be loved by others, but what if the love we crave is not avenged? It must be sad However, I have another view of unrequited love. Unrequited love is not always sad but always painful Like a mother's love, which is sometimes unanswered, because the child has no empathy and sometimes even prefers to play with his friend rather than thinking about the feelings of parents. But, if we are in the position of parents, it must be painful and very sad, so from that love must be sincere unconditionally, and that is also a drug that always heals the pain in the chest of parents. Unrequited love makes people more mature With unrequited love sometimes gives people more strength to live, because, in the end, they want to see the person they loved, love them back, even though it hurts but that's like it. However, in a case of unrequited love also gives people a very valuable experience for them, so they no longer have to lov

What did I Learn From Platonic Love?

I was in high school when met with my first love, but it's not the relationship that people want to feel it, why? because I was expecting more than just her affection that people around her get too, I just felt stupid when I realized I wasn't the only person got her attention. but, this is what I learn from a platonic relationship in my love story? Don't be over expecting expectation like dopamine, sometimes make you feel comfortable with her or his affection, and you just expecting more than just a friend, but when reality comes true, it's just far beyond your expectation, and make you just feel sad about it. Platonic Relationship Always Hard to Accept As I know, the platonic relationship always makes jealousy, when she or he starts to make relation with people around her or him, especially the opposite gender, it just can't be holding. but for me, it makes me more patient about making a relationship with the others, like I have to consider her positi